		
		{"id":30517,"date":"2023-02-01T10:13:34","date_gmt":"2023-02-01T18:13:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/?p=30517"},"modified":"2025-07-07T18:41:16","modified_gmt":"2025-07-08T01:41:16","slug":"what-to-do-if-your-girlfriend-is-pregnant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/what-to-do-if-your-girlfriend-is-pregnant\/","title":{"rendered":"What to do if your girlfriend is pregnant."},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"30517\" class=\"elementor elementor-30517\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-289dcea2 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"289dcea2\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-48d4b36 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"48d4b36\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"vce-row-container\" data-vce-boxed-width=\"true\"><div id=\"el-4e1fce90\" class=\"vce-row vce-row--col-gap-30 vce-row-equal-height vce-row-content--top\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-4e1fce90\"><div class=\"vce-content-background-container\">\u00a0<\/div><div class=\"vce-row-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\"><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"color: #333333; font-family: 'Roboto Slab'; font-size: 26px;\">How to be there for your girl and your baby.<\/span><\/p><\/div><p>\u00a0<\/p><div class=\"vce-row-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\"><div id=\"el-49855b09\" class=\"vce-col vce-col--md-auto vce-col--xs-1 vce-col--xs-last vce-col--xs-first vce-col--sm-last vce-col--sm-first vce-col--md-last vce-col--lg-last vce-col--xl-last vce-col--md-first vce-col--lg-first vce-col--xl-first\"><div class=\"vce-col-inner\" data-vce-do-apply=\"border margin background el-49855b09\"><div class=\"vce-col-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\" data-vce-do-apply=\"padding el-49855b09\"><div id=\"gf_intro\" class=\"vce-text-block\"><div id=\"el-26dff42b\" class=\"vce-text-block-wrapper vce\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-26dff42b\"><p><strong><span style=\"font-family: Roboto;\">Your heart has just stopped beating. The world has flipped off its axis. You think you may be either suffering a heart attack or hallucinating. Please let this be a dream. Your girlfriend texted that she is pregnant. Your life is about to change. Read on to find what to do if your girlfriend is pregnant.\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p><p><span style=\"font-family: Roboto;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Listen, you\u2019re not the first man to encounter an <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">unplanned pregnancy<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. In fact, according to the Guttmacher Institute, nearly half of the 6.1 million pregnancies in the United States were unintended <a href=\"#gf_source1\">(1)<\/a>. You can feel your fight or flight response kicking in. But truly, the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">best way<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to handle this is to breathe, relax, and research. You and your partner need to be calm so you can make an informed decision.<\/span><\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom vce-image-gallery-with-zoom--gap-10 vce-image-gallery-with-zoom--columns-3 vce-image-gallery-with-zoom--effect-zoom\" data-photoswipe-gallery=\"d7397bfd\"><div id=\"el-d7397bfd\" class=\"vce vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-wrapper\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-d7397bfd\"><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-list\"><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item\" data-photoswipe-item=\"photoswipe-d7397bfd\"><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item-inner-wrapper\"><a class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item-inner\" href=\"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/13\/1-3.jpg\" data-photoswipe-image=\"d7397bfd\" data-photoswipe-index=\"0\" data-pswp-uid=\"1\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-img\" title=\"1\" src=\"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/13\/1-3-1030x1030.jpg\" alt=\"What to do if your girlfriend is pregnant\" \/><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item\" data-photoswipe-item=\"photoswipe-d7397bfd\"><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item-inner-wrapper\"><a class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item-inner\" href=\"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/13\/2-4.jpg\" data-photoswipe-image=\"d7397bfd\" data-photoswipe-index=\"1\" data-pswp-uid=\"2\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-img\" title=\"2\" src=\"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/13\/2-4-1030x1030.jpg\" alt=\"how to respond to my pregnant girlfriend\" \/><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item\" data-photoswipe-item=\"photoswipe-d7397bfd\"><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item-inner-wrapper\"><a class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item-inner\" href=\"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/13\/3-5.jpg\" data-photoswipe-image=\"d7397bfd\" data-photoswipe-index=\"2\" data-pswp-uid=\"3\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-img\" title=\"3\" src=\"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/13\/3-5-1030x1030.jpg\" alt=\"how to determine the best option for you and your pregnant girlfriend\" \/><\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"el-5eb8d450\" class=\"vce-typewriter-heading vce-typewriter-heading--align-left vce-typewriter-heading--color\" style=\"--alignment: left; --color: #088382; --gradientangledeg: 45deg; --gradientend: #5C00FF; --gradientstart: #FF7200; --fontfamily: Roboto Slab;\"><div class=\"vce-typewriter-heading-wrapper\"><div class=\"vce-typewriter-heading--background vce\" data-vce-do-apply=\"border background padding margin el-5eb8d450\"><h2 class=\"vce-typewriter-heading-inner vce-typewriter-init\" style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-vce-typewriter-text=\"How to Respond to my Pregnant Girlfriend\" data-vce-typewriter-speed=\"100\" data-vce-typewriter-delay=\"2000\" data-vce-typewriter-loop=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are many different ways to respond to this situation. Your first reaction may be to consider this the end of the world. Give yourself a moment to panic; life as you know it is going to change forever, and you have <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">big decisions<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to make. But also know that you have options.<\/span><\/h2><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vce-text-block\"><div id=\"el-98d3e12c\" class=\"vce-text-block-wrapper vce\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-98d3e12c\"><p><span style=\"font-family: Roboto;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">expectant fathers<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> experience a range of emotions. These vary from determination to be a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">good father,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to panic and anger&#8230; sometimes within the span of a minute. As the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">father of the baby,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you are likely reliving the past, wishing you had prevented this <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">unexpected pregnancy.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> But beating yourself up about it is not going to change it. You have to be a solid support for your girl, especially in the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">next<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> few <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">days<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-family: Roboto;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fluctuating emotions aside, the very <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">best thing<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you can do in this <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">difficult time<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is to be supportive of the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">expectant mother.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> The <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">first step<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of this process is to listen to your girlfriend. As a male, your knee-jerk reaction is going to be to offer up all kinds of solutions, but that is not your job. From the moment she <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">missed<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> her <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">period<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you can pretty well bet her mind has not stopped racing. The <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">best thing<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for you to do in this moment is to extend a comforting hand and listen.<\/span><\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vce-row-container\" data-vce-boxed-width=\"true\"><div id=\"el-d65d67d0\" class=\"vce-row vce-row--col-gap-30 vce-row-equal-height vce-row-content--top\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-d65d67d0\"><div class=\"vce-row-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\"><div id=\"el-8b0aefb8\" class=\"vce-col vce-col--md-auto vce-col--xs-1 vce-col--xs-last vce-col--xs-first vce-col--sm-last vce-col--sm-first vce-col--md-last vce-col--lg-last vce-col--xl-last vce-col--md-first vce-col--lg-first vce-col--xl-first\"><div class=\"vce-col-inner\" data-vce-do-apply=\"border margin background el-8b0aefb8\"><div class=\"vce-col-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\" data-vce-do-apply=\"padding el-8b0aefb8\"><p><\/p><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom vce-image-gallery-with-zoom--gap-10 vce-image-gallery-with-zoom--columns-3 vce-image-gallery-with-zoom--effect-zoom\" data-photoswipe-gallery=\"241021c9\"><div id=\"el-241021c9\" class=\"vce vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-wrapper\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-241021c9\"><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-list\"><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item\" data-photoswipe-item=\"photoswipe-241021c9\"><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item-inner-wrapper\"><a class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item-inner\" href=\"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/13\/4-4.jpg\" data-photoswipe-image=\"241021c9\" data-photoswipe-index=\"0\" data-pswp-uid=\"1\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-img\" title=\"4\" src=\"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/13\/4-4-1030x1030.jpg\" alt=\"what will a visit to a pregnancy clinic with my pregnant girlfriend look like\" \/><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item\" data-photoswipe-item=\"photoswipe-241021c9\"><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item-inner-wrapper\"><a class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item-inner\" href=\"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/13\/5-4.jpg\" data-photoswipe-image=\"241021c9\" data-photoswipe-index=\"1\" data-pswp-uid=\"2\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-img\" title=\"5\" src=\"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/13\/5-4-1030x1030.jpg\" alt=\"What to do if your girlfriend is pregnant\" \/><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item\" data-photoswipe-item=\"photoswipe-241021c9\"><div class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item-inner-wrapper\"><a class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-item-inner\" href=\"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/13\/6-5.jpg\" data-photoswipe-image=\"241021c9\" data-photoswipe-index=\"2\" data-pswp-uid=\"3\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"vce-image-gallery-with-zoom-img\" title=\"6\" src=\"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/13\/6-5-1030x1030.jpg\" alt=\"help a friend who may not know what to do - What to do if your girlfriend is pregnant\" \/><\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><div id=\"gf_how2\" class=\"vce-text-block\"><div id=\"el-5bd1822c\" class=\"vce-text-block-wrapper vce\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-5bd1822c\"><p><span style=\"font-family: Roboto;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the end, you both are going to have to make a decision. You cannot simply be passive, letting your girlfriend decide what to do next. You are the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">father of the child<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and you have just as much responsibility for this new life. If you want to keep the baby, man up and tell her. Even if this opinion conflicts with her own, at least you can both become aware of where you stand.<\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-family: Roboto;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While you\u2019re discussing your options, the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">first thing<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you should do is research. The most important thing to do is to gather <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">accurate information<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-family: Roboto;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you decide you can\u2019t keep the baby, abortion is not the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">only option.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Adoption specialists<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> will give you plenty of resources and support through the process. A simple search in Google will reveal the available adoption consultants in your area.<\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-family: Roboto;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your reasons for not keeping the baby are financial, it\u2019s a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">good idea<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to consider alternate resources. It\u2019s no secret that children are expensive, but there are many programs that exist to help <a href=\"#gf_source2\">(2)<\/a>. Visiting a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pregnancy clinic<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> will help you find these resources. \u201cPregnancy Resource Centers offer counseling, medical services and may be able to help you secure local financial resources in your community\u201d <a href=\"#gf_source3\">(3)<\/a>. These community resources can help support you through your girlfriend\u2019s <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">early pregnancy<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and beyond. Pregnancy clinics are also completely confidential and do not require insurance.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><div class=\"vce-row-container\" data-vce-boxed-width=\"true\"><div id=\"el-829cd90e\" class=\"vce-row vce-row--col-gap-30 vce-row-equal-height vce-row-content--top\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-829cd90e\"><div class=\"vce-row-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\"><p><\/p><div id=\"el-31416704\" class=\"vce-col vce-col--md-auto vce-col--xs-1 vce-col--xs-last vce-col--xs-first vce-col--sm-last vce-col--sm-first vce-col--md-last vce-col--lg-last vce-col--xl-last vce-col--md-first vce-col--lg-first vce-col--xl-first\"><div class=\"vce-col-inner\" data-vce-do-apply=\"border margin background el-31416704\"><div class=\"vce-col-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\" data-vce-do-apply=\"padding el-31416704\"><p><\/p><section class=\"vce-feature-section-container vce-feature-section-media--xs\"><div id=\"el-34fb9aed\" class=\"vce vce-feature-section vce-feature-section--min-height vce-feature-section-background-color--b-8-131-130\" data-vce-do-apply=\"margin background border el-34fb9aed\"><div class=\"vce-feature-section-image vce-feature-section-image--alignment-left vce-feature-section-image--background-position-left-top\" style=\"background-image: url('https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/13\/visualcomposer-assets\/templates\/62f161921a8155.24426294\/assets\/elements\/GettyImages-1325860496.jpeg');\">\u00a0<\/div><div class=\"vce-feature-section-content\"><div class=\"vce-feature-section-content-container\" data-vce-do-apply=\"padding el-34fb9aed\"><div class=\"vce-feature-section-description\"><h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: 'Alfa Slab One'; font-size: 36pt;\">Want more info about financial programs?<\/span><\/h2><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: Roboto;\">Check out our article about financial resources.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><\/div><p><\/p><div class=\"vce-button--style-outline-container vce-button--style-outline-container--align-left\"><span id=\"el-9c161e00\" class=\"vce-button--style-outline-wrapper vce\" data-vce-do-apply=\"margin el-9c161e00\"><a class=\"vce-button vce-button--style-outline-animated-slidein vce-button--style-outline--border-square vce-button--style-outline--size-medium vce-button--style-outline-animated-slidein--color-b-255-255-255--b-33-33-33--3d3d3d vce-button--style-outline-animated-slidein--border-color-b-255-255-255--3d3d3d vce-button--style-outline-animated-slidein--background-color-b-248-135-73\" title=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/ca\/santa-ana-ca\/top-3-financial-resources-for-pregnancy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-vce-do-apply=\"padding border background el-9c161e00\"><span class=\"vce-button--style-outline-text\">Yes, Money&#8217;s Important<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><div class=\"vce-row-container\" data-vce-boxed-width=\"true\"><div id=\"el-589234f5\" class=\"vce-row vce-row--col-gap-30 vce-row-equal-height vce-row-content--top\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-589234f5\"><div class=\"vce-content-background-container\">\u00a0<\/div><div class=\"vce-row-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\"><p><\/p><div id=\"el-e9ae6910\" class=\"vce-col vce-col--md-auto vce-col--xs-1 vce-col--xs-last vce-col--xs-first vce-col--sm-last vce-col--sm-first vce-col--md-last vce-col--lg-last vce-col--xl-last vce-col--md-first vce-col--lg-first vce-col--xl-first\"><div class=\"vce-col-inner\" data-vce-do-apply=\"border margin background el-e9ae6910\"><div class=\"vce-col-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\" data-vce-do-apply=\"padding el-e9ae6910\"><p><\/p><div id=\"el-de97c380\" class=\"vce-typewriter-heading vce-typewriter-heading--align-left vce-typewriter-heading--color\" style=\"--alignment: left; --color: #088382; --gradientangledeg: 45deg; --gradientend: #5C00FF; --gradientstart: #FF7200; --fontfamily: Roboto Slab;\"><div class=\"vce-typewriter-heading-wrapper\"><div class=\"vce-typewriter-heading--background vce\" data-vce-do-apply=\"border background padding margin el-de97c380\"><h2 class=\"vce-typewriter-heading-inner vce-typewriter-init\" style=\"font-weight: 400;\" data-vce-typewriter-text=\"What Will a Visit to a Pregnancy Clinic with my Pregnant Girlfriend Look Like?\" data-vce-typewriter-speed=\"100\" data-vce-typewriter-delay=\"2000\" data-vce-typewriter-loop=\"1\">\u00a0<\/h2><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><div id=\"gf_what4\" class=\"vce-text-block\"><div id=\"el-846bbdad\" class=\"vce-text-block-wrapper vce\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-846bbdad\"><p><span style=\"font-family: Roboto;\">If nothing else, you may find that visiting a pregnancy clinic brings you peace of mind. You will have specialists there to provide you support in a time where you may feel absolutely lost.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-family: Roboto;\">There, your girlfriend can take one of the free urine pregnancy tests to verify her pregnancy. The pregnancy hormone human chorionic gonadotropin (HCG) will register on the test, confirming the pregnancy <a href=\"#gf_source4\">(4)<\/a>. The staff there will help guide you through your pregnancy options. Their insight will help you determine the important questions to consider.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-family: Roboto;\">You should go to this prenatal visit with your girlfriend. Even if personal questions about your girlfriend\u2019s last period make you squirm, your support is essential. You may find that the pregnancy clinic offers great resources for young fathers, as well.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-family: Roboto;\">The clinic will also provide a free ultrasound, a great resource for new parents. Hearing your baby\u2019s heartbeat for the first time is an experience like none other. The ultrasound is an important step to take before you make your final decision. There are also classes parents can attend throughout the pregnancy. Attending these classes, either in-person or online, earns you vouchers. You then apply these vouchers to mom and baby items, like diapers, outfits, and other good things. The courses you take will help supply you with the information you need to determine your next steps with confidence.<\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><div class=\"vce-row-container\" data-vce-boxed-width=\"true\"><div id=\"el-12698ed3\" class=\"vce-row vce-row--col-gap-30 vce-row-equal-height vce-row-content--top\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-12698ed3\"><div class=\"vce-row-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\"><p><\/p><div id=\"el-a83cfad0\" class=\"vce-col vce-col--md-auto vce-col--xs-1 vce-col--xs-last vce-col--xs-first vce-col--sm-last vce-col--sm-first vce-col--md-last vce-col--lg-last vce-col--xl-last vce-col--md-first vce-col--lg-first vce-col--xl-first\"><div class=\"vce-col-inner\" data-vce-do-apply=\"border margin background el-a83cfad0\"><div class=\"vce-col-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\" data-vce-do-apply=\"padding el-a83cfad0\"><p><\/p><section class=\"vce-feature-section-container vce-feature-section-media--xs\"><div id=\"el-1d8b5df6\" class=\"vce vce-feature-section vce-feature-section--min-height vce-feature-section-background-color--b-8-131-130\" data-vce-do-apply=\"margin background border el-1d8b5df6\"><div class=\"vce-feature-section-image vce-feature-section-image--alignment-left vce-feature-section-image--background-position-center-center\" style=\"background-image: url('https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/13\/visualcomposer-assets\/templates\/62f161921a8155.24426294\/assets\/elements\/GettyImages-1083827840-Sm.jpg');\">\u00a0<\/div><div class=\"vce-feature-section-content\"><div class=\"vce-feature-section-content-container\" data-vce-do-apply=\"padding el-1d8b5df6\"><div class=\"vce-feature-section-description\"><h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: 'Alfa Slab One'; font-size: 36pt;\">Ready to schedule an appointment?<\/span><\/h2><p>We\u2019re excited to meet you.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><\/div><p><\/p><div class=\"vce-button--style-outline-container vce-button--style-outline-container--align-left\"><span id=\"el-9c161e00\" class=\"vce-button--style-outline-wrapper vce\" data-vce-do-apply=\"margin el-9c161e00\"><a class=\"vce-button vce-button--style-outline-animated-slidein vce-button--style-outline--border-square vce-button--style-outline--size-medium vce-button--style-outline-animated-slidein--color-b-255-255-255--b-33-33-33--3d3d3d vce-button--style-outline-animated-slidein--border-color-b-255-255-255--3d3d3d vce-button--style-outline-animated-slidein--background-color-b-248-135-73\" title=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/contact-us\/\" data-vce-do-apply=\"padding border background el-9c161e00\"><span class=\"vce-button--style-outline-text\">Contact Us to Get Started<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><div class=\"vce-row-container\" data-vce-boxed-width=\"true\"><div id=\"el-70a5b58d\" class=\"vce-row vce-row--col-gap-30 vce-row-equal-height vce-row-content--top\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-70a5b58d\"><div class=\"vce-content-background-container\">\u00a0<\/div><div class=\"vce-row-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\"><p><\/p><div id=\"el-a7afb748\" class=\"vce-col vce-col--md-auto vce-col--xs-1 vce-col--xs-last vce-col--xs-first vce-col--sm-last vce-col--sm-first vce-col--md-last vce-col--lg-last vce-col--xl-last vce-col--md-first vce-col--lg-first vce-col--xl-first\"><div class=\"vce-col-inner\" data-vce-do-apply=\"border margin background el-a7afb748\"><div class=\"vce-col-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\" data-vce-do-apply=\"padding el-a7afb748\"><p><\/p><div class=\"vce-text-block\"><div id=\"el-04de1d84\" class=\"vce-text-block-wrapper vce\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-04de1d84\"><p><span style=\"font-family: Roboto;\">As you come to a final decision, consider every point of view, even that of your unborn child. You and your girlfriend have created a precious life together, a life that is now your responsibility as a couple. There are resources readily available for you to use, from financial resources to support groups.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-family: Roboto;\">You are not alone. It takes a village to raise a child, and you have access to that village. This may be one of the hardest things you have had to do. But it is a decision only you and your girl can make. So stand tall, take a deep breath, and get ready to be the strongest you have ever been, for your girl and for your baby.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-family: Roboto;\">You\u2019ve got this.<\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><div class=\"vce-row-container\" data-vce-boxed-width=\"true\"><div id=\"el-c9b4a3e6\" class=\"vce-row vce-row--col-gap-30 vce-row-equal-height vce-row-content--top\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-c9b4a3e6\"><div class=\"vce-row-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\"><p><\/p><div id=\"el-5bef3580\" class=\"vce-col vce-col--md-auto vce-col--xs-1 vce-col--xs-last vce-col--xs-first vce-col--sm-last vce-col--sm-first vce-col--md-last vce-col--lg-last vce-col--xl-last vce-col--md-first vce-col--lg-first vce-col--xl-first\"><div class=\"vce-col-inner\" data-vce-do-apply=\"border margin background el-5bef3580\"><div class=\"vce-col-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\" data-vce-do-apply=\"padding el-5bef3580\"><p><\/p><section class=\"vce-feature-section-container vce-feature-section-media--xs\"><div id=\"el-59ab8a38\" class=\"vce vce-feature-section vce-feature-section--min-height vce-feature-section-background-color--b-8-131-130\" data-vce-do-apply=\"margin background border el-59ab8a38\"><div class=\"vce-feature-section-image vce-feature-section-image--alignment-left vce-feature-section-image--background-position-center-center\" style=\"background-image: url('https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/13\/visualcomposer-assets\/templates\/62f161921a8155.24426294\/assets\/elements\/GettyImages-1198983580-_sm.jpg');\">\u00a0<\/div><div class=\"vce-feature-section-content\"><div class=\"vce-feature-section-content-container\" data-vce-do-apply=\"padding el-59ab8a38\"><div class=\"vce-feature-section-description\"><h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: 'Alfa Slab One'; font-size: 36pt;\">Worried about how to break the news?<\/span><\/h2><p>\u201cHow to tell your parents your girlfriend is pregnant\u201d<\/p><\/div><p><\/p><div class=\"vce-button--style-outline-container vce-button--style-outline-container--align-left\"><span id=\"el-9c161e00\" class=\"vce-button--style-outline-wrapper vce\" data-vce-do-apply=\"margin el-9c161e00\"><a class=\"vce-button vce-button--style-outline-animated-slidein vce-button--style-outline--border-square vce-button--style-outline--size-medium vce-button--style-outline-animated-slidein--color-b-255-255-255--fff--3d3d3d vce-button--style-outline-animated-slidein--border-color-b-255-255-255--3d3d3d vce-button--style-outline-animated-slidein--background-color-b-77-197-204\" title=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/obria.org\/santa-ana\/ca\/santa-ana-ca\/how-to-tell-your-parents-your-girlfriend-is-pregnant\/\" data-vce-do-apply=\"padding border background el-9c161e00\"><span class=\"vce-button--style-outline-text\">Read More<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><div class=\"vce-row-container\" data-vce-boxed-width=\"true\"><div id=\"el-caae728e\" class=\"vce-row vce-element--has-background vce-row--col-gap-30 vce-row-equal-height vce-row-content--top\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-caae728e\"><div class=\"vce-content-background-container\">\u00a0<\/div><div class=\"vce-row-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\"><p><\/p><div id=\"el-89e02b2d\" class=\"vce-col vce-col--md-auto vce-col--xs-1 vce-col--xs-last vce-col--xs-first vce-col--sm-last vce-col--sm-first vce-col--md-last vce-col--lg-last vce-col--xl-last vce-col--md-first vce-col--lg-first vce-col--xl-first\"><div class=\"vce-col-inner\" data-vce-do-apply=\"border margin background el-89e02b2d\"><div class=\"vce-col-content\" data-vce-element-content=\"true\" data-vce-do-apply=\"padding el-89e02b2d\"><p><\/p><div class=\"vce-text-block\"><div id=\"el-387638fa\" class=\"vce-text-block-wrapper vce\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-387638fa\"><p><span style=\"font-family: 'Roboto Slab';\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sources<\/span><\/i><\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><div id=\"gf_source1\" class=\"vce-text-block\"><div id=\"el-2aba9ba0\" class=\"vce-text-block-wrapper vce\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-2aba9ba0\"><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. Guttmacher Institute. (2019, January). <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unintended Pregnancy in the United States. <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.guttmacher.org\/fact-sheet\/unintended-pregnancy-united-states\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/www.guttmacher.org\/fact-sheet\/unintended-pregnancy-united-states<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><em><a href=\"#gf_intro\">back<\/a><\/em><\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><div id=\"gf_source2\" class=\"vce-text-block\"><div id=\"el-46936f05\" class=\"vce-text-block-wrapper vce\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-46936f05\"><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Go Fund Me. (2021, November 9). <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Financial Help for Pregnant Women: Three Ways to Get Assistance. <\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gofundme.com\/c\/blog\/financial-help-pregnant-women\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/www.gofundme.com\/c\/blog\/financial-help-pregnant-women<\/span><\/a><\/p><p><a href=\"#gf_how2\"><em>back<\/em><\/a><\/p><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><div id=\"gf_source3\" class=\"vce-text-block\"><div id=\"el-ae9b51c4\" class=\"vce-text-block-wrapper vce\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-ae9b51c4\"><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. American Pregnancy Association. (2021). <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Financial Help for Pregnant Women. <a href=\"https:\/\/americanpregnancy.org\/options-for-unplanned-pregnancy\/financial-help-for-pregnant-women\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/americanpregnancy.org\/options-for-unplanned-pregnancy\/financial-help-for-pregnant-women\/<\/a><\/span><\/i><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"#gf_how2\"><em>back<\/em><\/a><\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><div id=\"gf_source4\" class=\"vce-text-block\"><div id=\"el-656b3bf4\" class=\"vce-text-block-wrapper vce\" data-vce-do-apply=\"all el-656b3bf4\"><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. American Pregnancy Association. (2021). <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is HCG? <\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/americanpregnancy.org\/getting-pregnant\/hcg-levels\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/americanpregnancy.org\/getting-pregnant\/hcg-levels\/<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<a href=\"#gf_what4\"><em>back<\/em><\/a><\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><p><!--vcv no format--><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 How to be there for your girl and your baby. \u00a0 Your heart has just stopped beating. The world has flipped off its axis. You think you may be either suffering a heart attack or hallucinating. Please let this be a dream. Your girlfriend texted that she is pregnant. 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